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Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Teach him gently - if you can.

Teach him gently - if you can.
My young son is just starting school. It will be strange and new for awhile, and I wish you would sort of treat him gently. Up to now, he's been our little boy.
He's been boss of the backyard. His mother has always been around to repair his wounds, and his father's always been handy to soothe his feelings. But now things will be different.
He walked down the front steps, waved his hand goodbye and started on the great adventure - an adventure that will probably include wars, tragedy and sorrow.
To live his life in the world will require faith and love and courage, so, world, I wish you would sort of take him by his young hand and teach him the things he will have to know. Teach him...but, gently, if you can.
He will have to learn, I know, that all men are not just; that all men are not true. But teach him also that for every scoundrel, there is a hero. Teach him this: for every enemy, there is a friend.
It will take time, world, I know, but teach him, if you can, that a nickel earned is of far more value than a dollar found. Teach him to learn to lose - and to enjoy winning. Steer him away from envy, if you can, and teach him the secret of quiet laughter.
Let him learn early that the bullies are the easiest people to defeat. Teach him, if you can, the wonder of books. But also give him quiet time to ponder the eternal mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun, and flowers on a green hillside.
In school, world, teach him it is far more honorable to fail than to cheat. Teach him to have faith in his own ideas, even if everyone tells him they are wrong. Teach him to be gentle with gentle people; tough with tough people.
Try to give him the strength not to follow the crowd just because everyone else is getting on the bandwagon. Teach him to listen to all men - but teach him to filter all he hears through a screen of truth and take only the good that comes through.
Teach him to close his ears to a howling mob - and to stand and fight if he thinks he is right. Treat him gently, world, but don't coddle him, because only the test of fire makes fine steel.
Teach him, if you can, to laugh when he is sad. Teach him there is no shame in tears. Teach him there can be glory in failure and despair in success.
Teach him to scoff at cynics and to beware of too much sweetness. Teach him to sell his brawn and brain to the highest bidder, but never to put a price tag on his heart and soul.
Give him the courage to be impatient - let him have the patience to be brave. Teach him always to have sublime faith in himself, because then he will always have sublime faith in mankind.
It's a big order, world, but see what you can do. He's such a fine little fellow, my son.

According to Mr. Doucet, the author of this piece was unknown.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009
I AM LOOKING FOR A TEACHER
I AM LOOKING FOR A TEACHER
WHO IS BEAUTIFUL INSIDE
HONEST WITH THE STUDENTS
GIVING THEM A SENSE OF PRIDE

I AM LOOKING FOR A TEACHER
WITH A HEALTHY SELF ESTEEM
WHO CLEARLY STATE THE RULES
AND DOESN'T HAVE TO SCREAM

I AM LOOKING FOR A TEACHER
WHO CREATIVELY PREPARES
IS TO CONVEY FIRST PRIORITY
IS TO CONVEY THAT SHE CARES

I AM LOOKING FOR A TEACHER
WHO IS INTERESTED, NOT ALOOF
WHO THREATS HER STUDENTS WITH RESPECT
EVEN WHEN THEY GOOF

I AM LOOKING FOR A TEACHER
WHO KNOWS HOW TO LAUGH AND SMILE
WHO ENJOYS WHAT SHE'S DOING
AND GOES THE EXTRA MILE

I AM LOOKING FOR A TEACHER
WHO BELIEVES ALL STUDENTS CAN LEARN
WHO PRAISES THEIR EFFORTS AND TALENTS
THEIR GIVE THEIR BEST IN RETURN

I AM LOOKING FOR A TEACHER
WHO COMMUNICATES WITH PARENTS WELL
GENTLY AND CAREFULLY SELECTING WORDS
WHEN THERE'S A PROBLEM TO TELL

I AM LOOKING FOR A TEACHER
WHO ENCOURAGES CHILDREN TO HAVE A DREAM
TO WORK AT SOLVING PROBLEMS
BUILDING THEIR SELF ESTEEM

THERE ARE SOME TEACHER OUT THERE
THE KIND I'M LOOKING FOR
FOR THEIR STUDENTS' FUTURE SUCCESS
THEY HAVE OPENED UP THE DOOR

Are you the teacher that this student looking for?


Lulu - To Sir With Love

Those schoolgirl days, of telling tales and biting nails are gone,
But in my mind,
I know they will still live on and on,
But how do you thank someone, who has taken you from crayons to perfume?
It isn't easy, but I'll try,

If you wanted the sky I would write across the sky in letters,
That would soar a thousand feet high,
To Sir, with Love

The time has come,
For closing books and long last looks must end,
And as I leave,
I know that I am leaving my best friend,
A friend who taught me right from wrong,
And weak from strong,
That's a lot to learn,
What, what can I give you in return?

If you wanted the moon I would try to make a start,
But I, would rather you let me give my heart,
To Sir, with Love

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